Hi friends Today I want to share with you some new things about Fondness and Admiration in a Marriage.

Cherishing your spouse is the title of my class from this week. I am feeling a lot of understanding about marriages around me. I did not imagine that for a few minutes a discussion between a couple, someone could say if it will have future or not. This is what my book says. I love my book "The seven principles for making marriage work"  It has a  lot of wise words. I know like as a married woman that to the beginning in a marriage all seems like a very romantic movie, Of course as the time passed, the differences going on filling a space in the marriage. Generally all people want to have a  successful in marriage but it depends of them and  their circumstances. My marriage will be the best!... the people says after be married because... this is my perfect couple!. Well... I want to say now that there is a price for it. Obedience and sacrifice are something that will influences your marriage positively. I am impressed because in the scriptures there is the recipe for it., Anyone that feel that other one sacrifice something for him/her will think two times before offending.. 

I have been learning that the base for a good relationship is friendship., feeding with good actions our commitment. If I think in my partner before myself I will be putting the bases for a very good marriage and a consequence  good children.

I love to see married couples walking together, smiling, many times I asked myself how do they do that?, And my book says is simple: love and respect your partner

I learned bout love lab, a resource that some people used for improve their marriages, the attitudes between them and their reactions to the differences will determine this situation. I like the words of the author: always the partners can improve...all depends of them.

I am impressed that our good health is the result of a good marriage. I invite you to improve your marriage today.

 Hi friends, I want to share this week some thoughts about my readings this week. I was reading about marriage and how it affect to the children. I would have that all children in the world would be happy, and I discovered that the marriage in which they grew up is important in it. Read with me it message. Please be happy and recognize your parents. I realize that it made me feel better for the future. I would like that my children remember their parents with patient and consideration. Some people said that the more important opinion for a parent is from their son or daughter. What do you think?

Here is my words:

Marriage, a dream from boys and girls. Grand challenge for the life. Is incredible the effects from it over the future generations. I am learning a lot from the readings of this week. I grew up in a family with only a mother because my father died when I was 14, so I do not remember much about how and a marriage, except that my mother was happy when my father came home from work. I remember more what I felt was a sense of security, stability, complete. Nothing mattered because my family was together so much. After my father died I remember feeling sad, emotional instability, economic, feelings of loneliness and despair. Nothing could fix that Dad was gone. I know that every child needs a home with parents who are part of a harmonious marriage, based on good principles. Something happens to that little life. This will influence for life. In the book of Bible says that God ordained marriage, then Adam and Eve were the first marriage.And they had a communication with God and that made them closer. The Gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us that in a good marriage there is a relationship with God.
As a child watched each family. I thought that they were more happy if Dad was there. The thing that made me happiest was thinking that my Heavenly Father helped me through other people.I want to tell that by watching other couples I saw that they were smiling and treated kindly. Just those qualities mentioned Wallace Goddard, who explains that such qualities as humility, charity. Since life is a journey, as the author says, marriage is a lifetime trip.All of us want someone to be happy on our side.

I tell to my children it is the most important decision that you will do in your life. I think they will need the guide of the Lord and I tell them that they need pray every day for their future husband and wife. They tell me that they want to have three children. They want to have a big house and a lot of money for toys because is their dream. I say that the most important thing that their babies will need is love in home, confidence, good examples, tenderness.

They told me that in the church there are a lot of good people that live good principles, so it should be easy to obtain.
I smiled in my car while they told me their thoughts.
I want to ask you if you thought about you husband already?
Maybe not. It is a great idea for you and I advice you that the qualities that you want to find in other person...is good that you develop it and then you can offer it to your partner

I love the marriage like our Savior ordered. I would like to know more people in the world that want effort for a good marriage and a good family. It is the base of the society. This could make a better world..

Convenant of Marriage and Genogram

Hello dear reader:
   
         This week I been learning a lot about the marriage convenant.  I also discovered a new word, Genogram. I know it´s a strange word. Don´t be scared. I will tell you the meaning.
Genogram is a family tree, a graphic representation of your family. You can write the names of every person that have a relationship with you. It´s is an interesting way to realize how alike you are to them. 
It is marvelous because there are a lot of similarities between your grandparents, parents and you.
Other thing is that their marriage probably influences on you.
I can share with you that my family has been of a lot of traditional marriages with a lot of babies. Seems a tradition that every year my grandmother was expecting a baby. It is marvelous if you like a big family. All of this comes from a sacred marriage. A convenant between two compromise persons to each other. I know that our Heavenly Father instituted a model marriage for his children in this Hearth. Marriage is a sacred union sealed by the Lord power. I would like you to look at the marriages around you and on this traditions are born for the future generations. I have observed that if a child was born in a sweet marriage, he probably will have a similar marriage and the babies will grow up fine. And the same way around, If a baby was born in an unhappy marriage, he probably will be the same. The result will be a happy and stable marriages or unhappy marriages for the future. Children are the future.So... It would be great if all children could grow up in a home similar to the one the Lord had designed. A home in which the father and mother give 100 percent to achieve happiness. They have similar beliefs, and are united for eternity, and then invite children to come to this life and be part of their family. After marriage adversity is unceasing. The children growing up in that household will be raised in an atmosphere of kindness and acceptance. This is the best gift for a child. They can then grow happy and have all the tools to deal with problems outside the home that is full of love and security. Unfortunately not all children are lucky enough to have a loving family. Some homes have only one parent, deal with separation, and even death. But this week I found that parental behavior greatly influences the future of children. Looking for data of my ancestors I found some similarities between them and their descendants. On the side of the family of my father I have my grandparents who were married only once. Like my grandparents, in this family much importance it was given to marriage and most had around 10 or more children.
On the side of my mother it is very different.I had never realized that the behavior of my grandparents to mine or my mother or father seemed.I think making the genogram is very important to find if we follow such a history, or to change it. Maybe we like what they did, or we may want to change the moldI want a Christ-centered home, with daily scripture reading routines, charity, and trust.
. I invite you to share this knowledge, since within the search for data about my grandparents, uncles, and parents, I found many of my behaviors
Bruce C. Hafen " Convenant of Marriage"

"Defending marriage"

Why we defend marriage as the union of a man and a woman.?

This week I am reading about traditional marriage and relationships between man and man or woman and woman, and some people trying to argue about if is better or not that a child grow up in a new family instead with their own parents in difficulties. I want to say that I has been learned a lot from different readings, and I feel more comprehension on the issue. I like this quote: Men and woman are distinct and complementary, that it takes a man and a woman to bring a child into the world, and that children deserve a chance to grow up with a mom and a dad.( from marriage: where do we go from here?)

I know that there are children in homes that are in problems, it can seems difficult but be in other home and with other people should have difficulties too. Overall because they are not the own parents. For the everyday problems tolerance is essential to promoting peaceful coexistence even amid disagreement

Some children are fortunate, other not because never known their own parents. maybe have other things that resolve their necessities but knowing their own family is essential for everyone.

I have seen in television series that show families integrated by two woman or two men. I think we need to explain to our family the reason of it and the new ideas that the world have to show now. It not mean that it is correct. I teach to my children that my family believe in the marriage between a man and a women like the marriage that God taught. Accordingly to my readings stable and strong, families are the anchor of civilized society.

I share with you this sentences supporting my thinking:  husbands and wives must be faithful to each other in good times and in bad. this will bring peace and tranquility to children.

I understood that children need the two ways of think, Our heavenly father prepare to us the marriage to raise the children and learning and teaching children we will progress.

I know that if people have in their mind the result of their family in 10 year, planning the life, hoping all be fine, this marriage will have success. I advice never mentioned the word divorce. I think there are more divorces because it seems more common and popular. But I can see a dangerous coming over the children. I did read divorces are only because every person think more own self. Husband and wife should be faithful and think more in others, like children can be affected.

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Hello, Today I want to share about the importance of the marriage in our society and the dangerous  divorce.

I think people have been listening much about it, of course that marriage was the most important event on the life of one person. It was more in the past than today, because every day seems more normally listened the easiest decision of broke this institution. Are you listened it?

 So here my comments:

I have read a lot about divorce this week, I thought that knew the impact over the children. But now I know that is a terrible situation that they can´t ever fix. I think that parents are thinking about themselves more that the children, so they believe that divorce is a really good choice. The consequences are a lot and bad feelings for the family whom looked for a solution. I can see the pain over children in a life fighting to look normal to others. And of course asking themselves why they live it. I love the words that invite to the people to forgive and forget to the partner to give going. Our Savior teach us to look forward and promise us a unit family. So we need to try every day with our challenges. The most important thing for the children are their parents. The safety in home is the gift that preserve the family for generations. All parents feel the responsibility to maintain to their children in a safe way. I would prefer that marriage in troubles search for many options before divorce.

The most important institution in the world is the family because is the base of a health society. I would like to teach others to have effort for pray every day in home for be a good member of their family.

The scriptures teach us to join us to other person in order to get our own family for the eternity. I believe that it is a treasure for whom is older and think  did it.

The family that prays together, stays together. This is a phrase that our authorities said us and I remember all days

If someone are thinking in divorce I would like to say: Think it two times. Nothing is perfect in this life, So.tolerate the imperfections of others, it makes us better in the sight of God. Be patient, love your fellow as yourself. Think about what you can become progressing together. All they can achieve a beautiful family. A close family requires humility, love, courtesy and patience.